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An Update on a Work in Progress

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Hello everyone, we have been missing for awhile. The pawrents have been slightly busy, but today we have decided to give you guys an update on a long term project that we have been working on for a few months now.

Some of you may know that Dodo has always been an aloof and sometimes grumpy cat. She wasn’t always like this of course, she was quite a playful kitten when she first came. However, as she grew older, she seemed to mellow down a lot. For the longest time we just took it as her transitioning into adulthood and that is just her personality. Pea Pea joining the family didn’t really do much difference either although she did seem to take on the role of a mother/elder sister, grooming him, allowing him to follow her wherever she went. But as Pea Pea grew up, Dodo retreated back into the shadows again. It took Cat Dad some effort to convince me that that is not how Dodo should be and he eventually succeeded. We figured that living with a rain cloud hanging above her head is probably not good for her psyche and might even lead to physical illnesses. Hence, we’ve been trying different ways to get Dodo back to being the adorable and curious cat she once was.

Our main objectives were to get her to show interest in anything and to have some possessiveness in things that belonged to her. This was because, a lot of times, we noticed that she would adopt the passive way of dealing with Pea Pea. We wanted her to have a bit of fighting spirit in her and to stand her ground when Pea Pea tries to be funny. As of now, I think it is safe to say that that Dodo has shown significant improvement since we started a few months ago. We dare not say that we have it figured out and we have a surefire way of handling her. We are definitely still in the process of coming up with new and novel ways to mentally stimulate our little princess.

Catnip

The first time in a long time we saw her react enthusiastically to anything was catnip. We tried the dried grass version but she wasn’t very interested in that so Cat Dad got some catnip sprays and to our surprise, they work! In the past, she would always be very cautious when Pea Pea was around, but catnip allowed her to relax so well that she started rolling around on her back and showing her belly even when Pea Peas was beside her. She would even smack or hiss at Pea Pea when she felt that he was coming for her catnip toy. Fortunately, Pea Pea was more curious than interested in it, so there really wasn’t much competition there.

Diet

A few months ago, Dodo was hospitalized. Her weight had dropped below the healthy level and she was running a fever for no apparent reason. At the vet she was given meds for her fever and was put on drip because she was not eating. Thankfully she was only kept under monitoring for the day and we were able to bring her back that night.

In retrospect, we realized that the reason why she was always lethargic was probably because she was under eating. In order to get her energy level up, we needed her appetite to improve. Dodo was never one to finish all her food in one sitting. She always take a few bites, go off to do her thing, come back for a second round, go off, and if Pea Pea hadn’t finished her food for her by then, she would come back for a third round. Before this, she really didn’t have much interest in food and to add to it, she was extremely picky and cautious towards new food. As such, we went on a hunt for good quality and nutritious food to introduce to her. For the most part we stuck by our choices even though she didn’t like them at first, and slowly got her to accept them because good quality food would provide them with their daily nutrients. Only when their bodies are healthy would they have energy for playing and exploring. In addition, we also introduced some multivitamin supplements and digestive supplements because Dodo is prone to puking fur balls.

We got a wide selection of treats to switch around and tried our best to get treats that have nutritional value or oral hygiene properties as well. We would like to believe that she understands and is happy that we got the treats and yummy food for her, which we’re convinced, have contributed to her positive change in behavior.

Getting Along with Pea Pea

A few months ago, she wouldn’t show much interest in any toys and even if she did, she would at most give it a few swipes before walking away. We also noticed that she would stop playing whenever Pea Pea came over. It was as though she didn’t want to play with him or she didn’t want to compete with him for the toy. It was difficult for us to separate their play time because everytime we took out a toy, Pea Pea would appear. We also tried putting Pea Pea in the room while we played with Dodo. As soon as he hears the sound of toys on the other side of the door he would start meowing and Dodo would get distracted and not play anymore and clearly, that was not a viable solution to our problem.

Dodo’s relationship with Pea Pea isn’t exactly bad, however, she seems to choose not to be in the same space as him most of the time. If he approaches, she will move away, but other than that, they don’t really get into serious fights that resulted in any injuries. However, Cat Dad and I then decided that in order for her to be happy and comfortable in the home, tolerance towards Pea Pea is not enough. We NEEDED to get Dodo to be okay with Pea Pea coming near her before we could even get them to play together. Before this, the only time of the day where they are within touching distance of each other is during meal times and even then, if Pea Pea looks at Dodo’s bowl or tried to eat from her bowl, she would just give up and walk away. We wanted to get her to stand her ground and protect her food bowl.

We tried a lot of methods before deciding on the most straightforward training method – reinforcement. We started to only give them treats when they are together so Dodo can learn to associate being near Pea Pea with treat treats, and hopefully thereafter, whenever Pea Pea comes near her, she will automatically have a positive feeling. This took awhile before we saw results and we believed that this is when having a wide variety of treats come in handy. Switching around the treats we give out helps her to stay interested in the training process.

Another thing that we think have made Dodo more accepting of her brother is letting them sleep in the same room. This was actually an accidental discovery because our initial intention of putting them in the same room was not for this purpose. Dodo grew up sleeping in my bedroom and it’s only natural if thinks that my room is her room. Confining them within the space of my room forced them to find their own comfortable and safe space within close proximity of each other. As Dodo got used to falling asleep with Pea Pea in the same room, she also got used to having him near her during other times of the day. In fact, I have, on multiple occasions, caught them playing with each other in the middle of the night and they seemed to be having a good time 😂.

Recently, Dodo has started showing interest when we are playing with Pea Pea and most of the time she would join in the fun. She has also been inviting Pea Pea to play by luring him into chasing after her and we would see them running around the house on a daily basis.

The next goal that we are working towards is to get them to groom one another because that is a true sign of affection in cat language. In fact, a few days ago, I happened to catch Dodo playing with Pea Pea’s tail and in the midst of playing she groomed it a few times!

Our hopes are high now!!

As of now, we’re happy to say that Dodo is back to being the mischievous and playful cat that she was meant to be. She has taken on a new hobby of following her hoomans into the bathroom on the daily. She has also been meowing a lot more these days, especially when she rediscovered a new toy. Her weight has been steadily increasing with the improvement of her appetite. We’re taking it slow with her weight because we wanted her to gain weight healthily and with the proper nutrients.

The entire process of changing Dodo’s behavior took months and at some point we were not even sure if we were doing the right thing. We were quite lucky that we saw improvement relatively quickly because some other cat owners are having it harder than us. One thing that we always believed in is to have patience and take things at the pace that the pet is comfortable with. Although they may not understand our words, they are able to sense when we are feeling frustrated and they would feel pressured. We also try to remind ourselves to think in the perspective of the pet and not just focus on our need to see results. Seeing such a significant improvement in Dodo gave us a lot of gratification and motivation to do even more for her.

If you are a fellow pet owner, do let us know what are some tips and tricks you use to help your pets get along! We would love to hear from you!

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Pet Stores Adventures

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Hi everyone, this is Cat Mom. Two weeks ago, Cat Dad and I had a short trip up north to Johor Bahru, Malaysia! Apart from doing the usual things that Singaporeans do when in JB, like shop and eat (and shop and eat some more), we hit up a few pet stores in the area. Our objectives were to find pet stores that offered a large enough selection of the things we need, and preferably at a lower cost than what we’re used to in Singapore. We’re happy to share with you those that we love and are definitely going back. The addresses of these places will be listed at the end.

The first place we went to was Dhani Pet Store. We love this place because it is very cat-centric. Most of the products there catered to cats and they carry a lot of the brands we see in Singapore, but at a fraction of the price. The treats are worth getting, in our opinion, but definitely check out the expiration dates before buying. The staff working there were extremely helpful and not pushy at all. The shop space itself is cozy but not cramped. We dropped by on a weekday afternoon and there was no crowd. You can also ask their friendly staff about their membership. Members can get items at a lower price and collect points with each purchase. The points can then be used to redeem other products. For drivers, there is ample parking space right outside the store in their open-air car park.

Dhani Pet Store

Operating Hours: 10.30am to 9.30pm

No. 40 Jalan Setia Tropika 1/1, Taman Setia Tropika, 81200 Johor Bahru

The second place that has earned its place on the honorary list is Fisn N Pet! This place has more of a family business feel to it and is slightly smaller than Dhani Pet Store. Despite that, they have most of the things that we needed and also offer 20% membership discounts off every item. Fish N Pet does have in-house cat boarding services, not that this matter for us, but that means we get to look at adorable cats! The staff here are also very helpful and nice.

Fish N Pet

Operating Hours: 10am to 10pm

 7, Jalan Padi Emas 6/2, Bandar Baru Uda, 81200 Johor Bahru

We visited a handful of other pet stores as well and we are still in the process of visiting others, but for now, these are the ones that we will definitely go back again. One thing that we’d like to bring to attention is, we noticed that it is quite common for pet stores in JB to sell repackaged food, or at least all those that we’ve visited happened to have those. These are usually dried food that have been repackaged into clear plastic packages with no labels or nutritional information. We suggest to find out more about the origins of them if you do decide to get. Also, double check for expiry dates! Some of the items, especially treats, might be put on sale because they have already expired or are nearing the end of their shelf life. So be careful! Otherwise in general, we feel that the products and brands carried in these stores are quite safe. If unsure, always go for the brands that you are familiar with!

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5 Things We Cannot Live Without

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We’re sure most pet owners would agree with us when we say that having pets involve MAJOR changes to our lives- you’re now entitled to only half the bed because your pets occupy the other half; a casual walk from one end of the house to the other involves you stepping around and skipping over landmines toys which they inconspicuously left all over the floor for you to trip on; you get to enjoy spontaneous foot reflexology that immediately jolts your half-asleep brain awake when you step on cat litter, the list goes on. You get it.

Your pets are not the only addition to the family because in comes the avalanche of toys, necessities, treats, clothes, accessories, et cetera. Do we need all of them? No. Do we want more? Yes. But there is a handful of holy grail items that every pet owner absolutely CANNOT do without. We swear by these things to help keep our sanity in check because having pets is not always about rainbows and unicorns. So here’s a list of items we’ve acquired and they’re now very much incorporated into our routine with the maos.

1. Water fountain

In our earlier post, we talked about how much this item has changed the game for us. We’ve noticed that both Pea Pea and Dodo drank significantly more ever since we got this water fountain for them. Cats have a natural fascination with things that are moving and that includes moving water, which could explain why some cats like to sit on the kitchen counter and drink from a dripping tap. A water fountain ensures that the water is always flowing. What is good about this particular water fountain is that it comes with a filter pad that you can replace regularly. Each of the components in the fountain can also be removed for easy cleaning.

2. Grooming brush & nail trimmer

That’s technically two items but never mind.

It is not uncommon to see fur everywhere in our house and vacuuming the floor becomes a daily routine. Both Pea Pea and Dodo have thick and long coats of fur and frequent brushing helps to eliminate shedding quite significantly. Frequent brushing can be tedious when the maos are not feeling cooperative but it is definitely worth the effort because we end up spending lesser time picking their shedding off other surfaces. There are many types of pet brushes out there but we find this to be the most effective for us. We also have fun making fur balls from the fur we collected.

The nail clipper is another must have that we’re sure all cat owners would agree. Pea Pea and Dodo are not aggressive in using their claws but sometimes accidents do happen and we might lose a bit of blood. To prevent that, we’ve been trimming their claws since they were babies, keeping them at a good length. However, with smaller kittens, we suggest using nail clippers for human babies because kittens have much smaller and softer claws and a small nail clipper would be easier to manage. Nail clipping can be intimidating for some cat owners but it is something that needs to be done in order to prevent accidents from happening not just to yourself, but also to the cats.

3. Lint roller

Need we say more?? This is an absolute life saver for us ever since we had Pea Pea and Dodo. Unless you want to hide all your dark colored clothes and never let them see light again, this tool is a must have for families with shedding pets, or just regular families in general. But if you want to wear your “pet glitter” with pride, hey, we don’t judge. You do you.

4. Wet wipes

This is extremely handy to have in every corner of the house. They are good for cleaning up the maos after they went potty or when we bring them to the park. We also use them to spot clean around their food bowls after they eat, they make cleaning up fuss-free and convenient. They are certainly multifunctional both for pets and humans, and good to have around. Just make sure that they’re suitable for human babies before using it on your pets because certain types of wet wipes contain alcohol or are too heavily-scented.

5. Wireless vacuum cleaner

With the flying fur and loose bits of cat litter in unassuming places, a wireless vacuum cleaner is a must-have for us. We vacuum the floor at least once a day and it would have been very tedious for us to drag around a massive vacuum cleaner. Not to mention, even in a household with no pets, a wireless vacuum is a good thing to have for quick and efficient cleaning. For cat owners who use clumping litter instead of pine litter, be careful to choose a vacuum that is strong enough because clumping litter can be heavier and more difficult to pick up.

All of the items mentioned have brought a lot of convenience to us, both the hoomans and the maos. There are definitely more items that we can add to the list but for now, these are the things that we find ourselves reaching for almost everyday. If you are a fellow pet owner, feel free to share with us your personal must-have items in the comments section! We’d love to hear from you! 😊

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Visit to the Vet

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Last week, we brought Pea Pea and Dodo to the vet for a routine check. Prior to that, we had planned to bring them for awhile but Cat Dad finally made the call to go last week when we noticed Dodo hasn’t been eating well and had lost quite a bit of weight. Initially we thought her lack of appetite was due to her ingesting fur balls when she’s grooming herself, which had happened before. We gave her supplements and treats for fur balls but still saw no improvement.

Cat Dad found this other pet clinic which offers an extensive variety of services. We decided to give that a try, so we packed up the maos and off we went!

Here they are waiting anxiously patiently for their turn!

It was quite a long wait because the clinic did not allow appointment bookings. Pea Pea and Dodo (and their astronaut bags) got a bit of attention 😄. There were already a few people waiting in the clinic when we got there but as the night progresses, more and more people trickled in.

Despite the number of patients and concerned pet parents in the waiting area, Dr. Vanessa was very patient and thorough in her procedures. We found out that Dodo was actually running a fever and Dr. Vanessa suggested doing blood tests on both Pea Pea and Dodo to make sure that everything was well with them. We also found out that Pea Pea was borderline overweight and have to watch his diet from now on 😂.

The process of waiting for the blood test results was very quick (15-20mins). We waited a little longer though, which was understood because of the sheer number of patients that evening. When the clinic assistant finally called us in, we were so relieved to hear that the results were good. Dr. Vanessa even said that both the maos were very well behaved throughout the whole time they were in the examination room. #Proudparents. Dodo had to be on medication for the next 8 days, but otherwise, we were told that everything we are doing for the maos is good, and we were cleared to go.

Fast forward to current time, Dodo is completely recovered now. Her appetite has improved quite a bit since a week ago.

Meanwhile, Pea Pea’s tummy is still round 🤣🤣.

The routine that we now have, comes from endless research and experiment to find out what works for the maos and what doesn’t. For us hoomans, it was especially rewarding to hear that what we are currently doing is good for them. Here are some of the things we do to ensure that the maos are living the best they can.

Cats are not exactly the biggest fans of being in water. Same applies for drinking them. As such, they can be more prone to kidney and urinary tract diseases. To encourage the maos to increase their daily water intake, we have multiple drinking bowls in the house, one of them is a water fountain which we set up in the bedroom. The water fountain includes a pump which ensures that the water is always moving. Ever since we had the fountain, we noticed that both the maos have been drinking way more than before. They would even go into the bedroom in the midst of doing their daily cat stuff just to drink from the fountain.

In addition to more water points, we also give the maos canned food once a day. Canned food are higher in water content, keeping the maos nice and hydrated. Not to mention, they love the stinky-ness of canned tuna 🤢. Apart from canned food, we make sure that the dry food we give them are low in artificial contents and fillers. As the majority of their diet should be dry food, we felt that it is important that the food should be of good nutritional value.

Hygiene-wise, we try to brush their teeth whenever we can with toothpastes that are specifically for pets. It was also suggested by Dr. Vanessa to give them dental treats that can help with clearing the bacteria and build-ups in their teeth.

We have two litter boxes that are cleaned daily. The litter is changed and the litter boxes are washed every two weeks. We used to have only one litter box and for the most part, Pea Pea and Dodo shared it quite well. However, Pea Pea is a bit of a clean freak (although he really doesn’t look like it 😂 ) and would not use the litter box if it was not cleaned. As a result, there were a few mishaps. After countless bedsheets, bath mats, handbags, and one REALLY soiled cat condo later, we got another litter box. Yeah… that boy sure knows how to make a statement 😪. Having two litter boxes would mean that at least one would be clean at all times for either cats to deposit their gems.

On top of that, we also keep their fur clean by giving them baths once every few weeks. They don’t seem to mind being in the water and we’ve recently upgraded the size of their bath tub.

So far, both Pea Pea and Dodo are contented with standing on the spot or taking small steps around the tub. We have yet to see them swim. Any cat swim coach out there who is interested in collaborating, hit us up! 😂😂

Having cats, or any pets for the matter, is a huge responsibility and a lot of work. Sometimes you sweat, sometimes you cry, other times you bleed. But one thing that we can say on behalf of all pet owners is, nothing beats the feeling of seeing our pets happy and contented, and knowing they are healthy. It almost makes all the soiled bedsheets worth it 😜.

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Things We Learned From Bringing the Cats Out

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We’ve been bringing Pea Pea and Dodo on walks pretty much as soon as they can fit comfortably into harnesses. In a previous post we mentioned why we wanted to bring them out and how we started with their training. Along the way, we learned a few tips and tricks that we found to have worked on our cats in helping them enjoy their outdoor experiences more. In this post, we will be sharing some of them with you. Again, these were what we have found to work for us, if you decide to try them on your cats, do practice some precaution as different cats may react differently in such situations.

For the most part, we only bring them out in the evening or when the sun is setting. We found that to be the best condition for them to be out in terms of outdoor temperatures. In the past we have tried bringing them out early in the morning and we’ve noticed that they are not in the mood to walk or are simply feeling too hot to walk. As both of them have rather thick and long fur, the night time weather suits them well enough, keeping them cool and allowing them to kill off some energy after a perfectly timed dinner. When we go home, they’re usually nicely drained and ready to sleep for the night.

Things to Bring

  • Harness, leash, shoes
  • Carriers
  • Ice/cooling packs, portable fans
  • Treats

When pet parents think of walking their pets, the essentials that comes to mind are usually harnesses, leashes, and shoes. In fact, we first got exposed to the idea of walking our cats from YouTube videos of adventurous cats hiking with their owners. These cats were wearing special harnesses attached to leashes. Some of them were even wearing little windbreaker jackets or tiny life vests. As for shoes, we got them because we didn’t want them to injure their paws by stepping on sharp objects or rough surfaces.

However, our experiences with our cats have taught us that they are not walkable cats. They cannot be attached to a leash and walked, like how dog owners walk their dogs. Most of the time, once the harnesses and leashes are on, they lay flat on the ground refusing to budge and we’d have to drag them across the floor in order to get them to move. We thought that would only happen in the comfort of our home but we were so wrong. Believe me, you wouldn’t want your cat lying on the ground outside. Owners who share their beds with their cats, you feel my pain. Don’t even get me started on the shoes. For the most part, the shoes stay on Dodo and she actually walks quite well with them on. But Pea Pea has what we termed “Shadowless Paws”. As soon as the shoes go up, his paws start to spin and go into a blur and before you know it, you have shoes flying off in all directions. No matter how tightly we secured them, they ALWAYS come off.

And so, we wanted to think of ways to make their experience better and to actually see them WALK instead of being carried around. We realized that the number one cause of discomfort for them was probably the shoes. So we started letting them walk around the void deck bare-pawed and they immediately walked so much better. Both Pea Pea and Dodo do not have much stamina – meaning even if they start running, they don’t go far. With that knowledge, we decided to remove their leashes and let them walk completely unrestricted. Of course we were always within a few feet distance of them just in case they do decide to start running or if they were approaching potential danger. As soon as all that came off, they began to walk less awkwardly and they also started to express more curiosity towards their surroundings. At the end of the walk, we would simply wipe them down with wet wipes or a damp towel and they will be good to go. Even though they technically do not use the harnesses and leashes to walk, we still like to bring them along as they helped us hold onto the cats when the situation calls for it.

For easy transportation to and from the park, we have individual carriers for them.

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These are the ones we’re currently using but we use a different front cover that provides more ventilation when they are in the bags. With these cute bags, Pea Pea and Dodo always receive a lot of attention every time we bring them out!

If it is a particularly warm day, we would bring frozen ice packs in their carriers to keep them cool. We found that they tend to not pant at all with the cooling packs. We also have portable mini fans, but those are mostly for us humans. Bringing along some kind of treat helps too! Although when we first started bringing them out, they were too nervous about being out to enjoy the treats. As most pet trainers would suggest, we wanted to let Pea Pea and Dodo associate being outdoors with yummy treat treats so that they would be more at ease and enjoy being outdoors, and we’re glad that they did eventually calm down enough to eat the treats.

Location

  • Quiet, less people, away from roads
  • Large empty spaces, flat ground
  • Away from grass/trees, water bodies, drains

Pea Pea and Dodo are indoor cats and do not have a lot of interactions with humans other than family members living in the same household. As such, we made sure to bring them to places with less traffic, as far away from noisy roads as possible. We did encounter some problems when finding a good location for them to roam. Most of the reservoir parks in Singapore have wonderful facilities for kids, some even have water features and splash parks in them. However, these places were not pet friendly, or at least we cannot go anywhere near the water features, which is where the shade is usually at.

We did eventually manage to find a park that has quite a nice environment and Pea Pea and Dodo seemed to quite like it as well. It’s the Waterfront Park at Woodlands! There is a huge open-air play area near the entrance where we let them roam freely. The rubber flooring of the area does not affect their paw paws as much, although there was once their white paw paws stained blue after a particularly foggy and wet day 😂. The big open space is good for them to explore, it’s cooling enough for them to lay there and watch the other park-goers as well. We also did not have to worry much about them going into the grassy areas where insects might be found. The playground is quite a distance from the sea and jetty, so we did not need to worry about them going for a swim.

All good habits should start at a young age. From our experience with bringing the cats out thus far, we have learned that it might have been better to start bringing them out when they were younger. We started bringing Dodo out in her little carrier pretty much as soon as we brought her home. But Pea Pea lived most of his kittenhood in the safety of our home. We feel that that could have led to the difference in their reactions towards the outdoors and strangers. Dodo, although cautious, is definitely more calm while Pea Pea often froze up. Perhaps bringing them out at an earlier age would help them get used to being outside.

Nonetheless, we’re constantly trying out new routines and things that might help Pea Pea and Dodo enjoy the outdoors. Maybe one day we’ll be able to bring along their toys and let them run around! If you are also a cat owner or have experience with pets, please let us know if you have any tips that worked for you! We would greatly appreciate them! 😁

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One Day, I’m Going to Bring a Cat Home

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Hi, this is Cat Mom and according to Cat Dad, this is an interesting story to tell. Apparently, his interest in knowing about Dodo and Pea Pea (and cats in general) sparked after I told him about the story of how I adopted Dodo. It was enough to convert him from someone who couldn’t care less about pets, to a crazy cat dad, and the rest is history.

A little background about me. I have always liked animals that are furry but I especially liked cats. Ask anyone around me and they would tell you that. Anytime I see a cat, I would rush over to pet them (despite my mum’s fears of me coming in contact with fleas). The neighborhood I lived in when I was young had a lot of strays and I would always stop to pet them on my way home from school. As a result, cats follow me. I am no cat whisperer but I often had different cats following me home. Sometimes, in the morning, we’d find cat poop directly outside our door and my horrified mum would have to clean up the mess. I thought it was funny.

There was another incident where a cat came into our house early in the morning as we had left the door slightly ajar. I was taking a shower and it was meowing outside the bathroom door. While my mum was fretting over how she can keep cats away from our house, I was just amused by the whole thing.

Despite my fascination and obsession with anything cat, I thought my interactions with them would only be limited to playing with strays and I never would have thought that one day, I could have a cat. Until many many years later.

Circa 2015, a friend and I were talking and, out of spite, I casually made the remark that “one day, I would bring home a cat”. It didn’t mean much at that time. I meant it as a joke but over the next few months I would find myself saying the same thing again and again, to friends, to my sister, to my mum. Initially they told me not to be crazy, but me being me, the more I am told not to do something, the more I wanted to do it. I began to seriously consider the idea of bringing home a cat, and by serious, I meant SERIOUS. Lots of research were done about how to care for cats, the preparation work involved, the kinds of food for them, et cetera, and visits to the local SPCA were made (Read about it here). I also thought about the possibility of me being chased out of my house by my mum (with a cat in tow – which honestly, doesn’t sound too bad!). At this point, I was pretty sure that the worst thing that can happen is to have my mum be extremely mad at me and probably not talk to me for a few days. But I was also about 98.99% positive that she would not make me return the cat because I know my mum. She is an animal lover. And so, a crazy plan was devised- I was going to adopt a cat and bring it home. SECRETLY. 😈😈😈

I continued to tell my family on a weekly (might have been daily) basis that I was going to bring a cat home one day and overtime, they see no cats, they start to not take me seriously. They were getting desensitized to the idea. But it was all part of the plan. Meanwhile, I was doing all the prep work, ordering cat supplies, window meshes, cat bed, toys, litter boxes, food, all the fun stuff.

When all the supplies arrived and are in place, my partner in crime (hi Janice!) and I decided that today was the day. Prior to that, I had looked through the cats for adoption on the SPCA site and had my eyes set on one. And so we head down to SPCA to get me a cat. We spoke to the person in charge at SPCA and she told us in order to apply for adoption, everyone living in the household have to be present during the application process.

But the adoption was supposed to be a secret.

That was not the day I brought a cat home. We went home disappointed.

That evening, Janice and I started scouring the internet looking for people putting cats up for adoption. In one of the postings she had showed me, there was this 2 month old little kitten with hair sticking out in all directions. I could tell she was going to be a longhaired cat, and I told Janice “nah, I kind of want an older cat, preferably with short hair”. Despite that, Janice managed to convince me into a house visit. And so, we compiled a list of potential candidates.

The next morning, we set off for a day of house visits. One particular candidate we visited was extremely shady in our opinion. When we reached out to the owner the previous day, she said that she is putting her 2 year old female ragdoll up for adoption because her parents in-law had recently moved in with her family and that they were allergic to cats so they had no choice but to let her go.

When we arrived, the owner said that her husband and daughter would meet us at the void deck shortly. The meeting place was pretty close in proximity to a construction site. Janice and I were low-key worried that the cat would feel stressed with the loud noises but the father and daughter duo seemed fine with it. We saw that they had brought along two cats in separate carriers and so we casually said “oh we didn’t know you have two cats for adoption”. They just looked at us awkwardly and didn’t say anything. They then opened the carriers and told us that one of them was the female that was in the ad and the other was her son. So Janice and I started asking questions about the cats and between each reply they gave us, the father and daughter would converse between themselves in Malay as though they were discussing what to say. Throughout our entire meeting, the cats stayed curled up and cautious at the back of their carriers. We did not feel any affection between the owners and the cats, which was strange to us considering the fact that they were about to send away the pets and possibly never see them again. Perhaps the cats have never been outdoors and they were frozen with fear with the loud noises coming from the construction site, or maybe they did not feel attached enough to their owners to go to them for security in a situation where they felt unsafe. Either way, it was an extremely weird experience for both Janice and I. The cherry on top of the cake was, when we specifically asked about the male ragdoll, they owners abruptly said that they were keeping him. We were confused but we thanked them for their time, and left.

It probably doesn’t help that the pair were a little shifty during our interaction and avoided eye contact for the most part. It also didn’t make sense to us that they were keeping the male cat while letting go of the female, when they had relatives with cat allergies living in their home. Nonetheless, we didn’t want to jump to conclusions and we left it at that.

At the end of the day, we had an answer. I have had this one particular cat in my mind since meeting her earlier in the day. I had originally wanted a slightly mellow, not as crazy, adult cat with short fur, a cat that would match my personality (aka I’m boring). But that all went out the window when I saw her teeter tottering after her siblings and we knew we had to go back for her.

The little 2 month old with fur sticking out in all directions.

After bidding goodbye to her siblings and parents, we brought baby Dodo home in a little carrier. The plan was not yet over. We rushed home before anyone else came back, and settled her down.

And then we waited.

My mum was the first to come back that day. Upon seeing Janice nervously and awkwardly pacing around the house looking like a kid on her first day of school, my mum immediately sensed that something was up. She went straight to my bedroom and flung the door open. All I heard was her exclaiming in Mandarin, “Eh, how come you’re here??” in the room before she turned and smack me on the arm. She was not mad though. She had a look of disbelief mixed with amusement on her face that she was failing at masking.

My dad was really chill about Dodo. He was so chill that he seemed almost nonchalant, while my sister, vacationing in Korea at that time, was convinced that I was pranking her until I sent her a video of my mum playing with Dodo.

We named her Cookiez Ann Creame de Donutez, Donut in short. She got on very well with the rest of the family. Who wouldn’t get along well with her? I mean, just look at that face!

And so Operation “Bring a Cat Home” was a success and I have a cat! Dodo became the center of our family for many many months to come before she had to share that attention with Pea Pea. But that’s a story for another day.

A word of advice for anyone who is thinking of following in my footsteps – PLEASE DON’T. 🤣

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Look! The Cat is Walking on a Leash!

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That is one of the things we’ll hear when we bring the cats out, alongside “Oh! It’s a cat! I thought it was a dog!” because I guess it’s not every day you see people bringing their cats out for walks.

Ever since Pea Pea was physically old enough to engage in altercations with Dodo, we would often return home for the day to find bunches of fur everywhere. It is not uncommon to see them suddenly burst into Energizer bunnies, chasing one another around the house. Most often than not, it would end up with Dodo hissing and growling at Pea Pea, with bunches of fur fluttering in the air and scattered romantically like rose petals around them on the floor.

Initially we thought maybe Pea Pea was at that age where he wants to assert dominance on Dodo, and hence, the chasing and mounting. For Dodo’s sanity, we brought Pea Pea to the vet’s for a little procedure but what we didn’t expect was for the fighting and chasing (and growling and hissing) to continue as before. After a bit of reading on the internet, we learned that indoor cats have a lot of pent up energy which they will have problems releasing unless stimulated properly.

We live in a high rise apartment building and both Pea Pea and Dodo are complete indoor cats and are not exposed to the outside world. We could see why they would have pent up energy. We had a plethora of toys available for them which worked to drain their energy for awhile, but their attention for them grew shorter and shorter.

We started bringing them out for short trips to the grocery stores or when we go out to get food. What we noticed from those trips was that, not only were they super curious about what was around them, they would almost always come home completely drained and would sleep very soundly through the night.

We took their curiosity as a positive sign and began preparing and training them for walks. We had them wear harnesses attached to leashes and shoes for a few minutes daily for a couple of weeks before deciding that they were ready for their first walks.

Pea Pea and Dodo have very different personalities. Dodo, being the alpha, is treated like a princess most of the time. She is also less social and would prefer to nap in a quiet room by herself while Pea pea is more attached to the humans. He is also a lot more vocal than Dodo. As such, we expected Pea Pea to be more adventurous and more eager to explore the outdoors. Little did we know, that was NOT what happened.

Needless to say, they were both very nervous on their first walks where we brought them around the neighborhood. Their bodies were crouched close to the ground as they made their way around cautiously. Pea Pea would continuously look for sheltered areas or secluded corners where he could hide. What came as a surprise to us, was that Dodo, while being cautious about her surroundings, was exploring every inch of the lift lobby.

We eventually removed her leash to let her walk freely, but we also made sure to be within reach of her at all times, just in case she decides to make a run for whatever it is she decides to make a run for. That seemed to reduce the weight she felt on her body as she began walking more normally, sans the crouching. She even said hi to the neighbors!

P.S. Pea Pea was a scaredy cat that’s why he’s not in the video (because he was too scared to walk).

After a few more walks around the neighborhood, Pea Pea and Dodo graduated to bigger spaces. Cat Dad was careful in shortlisting a few parks in Singapore. We visited most of them several times to find one that the fur babies are comfortable in. There were also a few tips and tricks we learned along the way to make their outdoor excursion more enjoyable for them, but we’ll talk about them in another post.

As of now, we have one park that we frequent weekly. Pea Pea and Dodo seem to like the environment there. They amuse fellow park goers by walking around, sometimes even casually strolling up to strangers to take a closer look at them. Some people come up to us to ask questions about our cats, others secretly take pictures of them to send to their friends. Sometimes kids come close enough to give them pets before squealing and running away in excitement, but for the most part, the people seem pretty chill about sharing the space with two fluffy cats.

As for their behaviors, we do notice that there are lesser episodes of Energizer bunnies dashing around the house. We also observe quite a bit of improvement in Dodo. She has been more active and playful nowadays (although she still grumbles occasionally). Pea Pea is also better at being outdoors now compared to when we first started off. He still tries to hide when we first reach the park, but as time passes, he gets more comfortable.

We might move on to other parks, we might keep going back to the current one. We’re still on a look out for other places but till then, we’re setting up base here.

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Our Experience As First Time Cat Parents in Singapore

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A little fact about us – we live in a too sunny and too warm tropical island of Singapore. Cat Mom and Cat Dad were born and raised here, so were Dodo and Pea Pea. We thought it would be interesting to share some of our experiences as first time cat parents.

Before we start off, we would like to throw in a disclaimer. Having pets (in any shape or size) is a huge responsibility. From the day you decide to bring home your pet, they are dependent on you for the rest of their lives, which is why you have to be financially, mentally, and physically prepared for the commitment before jumping in.

Also, the content of these post is solely based only on our experiences so far, we’re not generalizing or making any assumptions about anybody. These are what we found to have worked with our cats and they may not work for everybody. We are no Jackson Galaxy. We are constantly learning and trying to be the best parents we can be to Dodo and Pea pea.

Researching

Dodo was our first cat. The original plan was to adopt one from the local SPCA but we eventually found Dodo on an adoption ad posting on the internet (more on that in a later post).

Our experience and knowledge about these ads are that the animals put up for adoption on these sites are usually from existing pet owners whose pets have just given birth and they are not able to care for all the babies, so they put them up for adoption with a fee, which could include the cost of their first vaccinations/vet visits, as well as basic supplies up to the point of adoption. However, you do have to be careful of shady pet owners, which we will talk about in a later post, but do try to be more observant about the animal you are adopting, how they interact with their current owner, as well as the body language and nonverbal cues of the owners when you interact with them.

We also feel that it’s better to have visits in the owner’s home before adopting because,

  1. A picture tells a thousand words but a moving, breathing (purring, running around, and probably scratching) cat can tell a million;
  2. The cat would be more at ease in the familiar environment and you can see them interacting with other cats and humans, which helps to determine whether their personalities are in line with what you are looking for and;
  3. You will be able to observe their current living space and kinda tell if the owners are genuine animal lovers or are breeding for financial gains.

So far, the owners whom we met with were very kind and helpful. They even gave us recommendations on what supplies to get and where to get them. We were very fortunate as our experiences with adopting Dodo and Pea pea were mostly pleasant.

Preparation Work

As first time cat parents, we needed to get the necessary supplies and so… *cue the cat supplies shopping spree*

Where we live, pet necessities and supplies from mainstream stores can get quite costly. We got most of our supplies from online pet stores both locally and abroad. Consumables are mainly from local stores which we managed to find pretty good deals thanks to Cat Dad’s exceptional researching abilities and patience.

Over the years, the amount of cat stuff we have snowballed, but here is a list that we think are the basics:

1. Food, treats, as well as food and water bowls- we give a mixed diet of dried and wet food daily. Dodo was not a water drinker, so we added a bit of water into her food and we eventually managed to get her to drink. Treats are not mandatory but they are good for training and bonding.

2. Litter box and cat litter

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Although whether or not your cat might actually make use of it is a different story. Someone was CLEARLY trying to make a statement here. 🙄

3. Carrier- for transportation purposes

4. Toys and scratching post/small cat condo

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CAUTIONARY WARNING: your cat MAY or MAY NOT use the cat condo as a place to poo poo and wee wee. DON’T ask how we know.

5. Bed

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6. Grooming necessities- claw clippers and brushing tools are the essentials. We subsequently went on to include cat shampoos, toothbrushes, and toothpastes for hygiene purposes.

Coming Home

After all the preparation work, it’s time to bring the fur babies home!

Dodo and Pea Pea are now completely free roaming in our home but as most cat owners would suggest, we limited their space to within a room the first few days of bringing them home. Allowing them to roam freely right off the bat might be too overwhelming for them. We also had food, water, and their litter box in the room so they basically lived in confinement for awhile. Both Dodo and Pea Pea acclimated quite quickly and they, thankfully, got along well with our family members as well. Throughout the initial few days, we also made sure to be at home for the most part, periodically checking in on them to ensure that they are settling in well.

As pet parents (or human parents for that matter), there’s only so much you can do for your children. Ultimately, they decide for themselves the path they want to choose, the place they want to poo, or the bed the want to snooze. They might sleep in the bed you specially ordered for them, or they might sleep on their siblings, they might also end up in your bed. But most definitely, they will end up in your heart. ♥️

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Welcome to Scratching Posts! Thank you for finding us and we hope you enjoy your stay.

A brief introduction of ourselves – our VERY professional production team consists of a grand number of FOUR members:

  1. Dodo (aka Donut)
  • persian ragdoll, female
  • the alpha
  • has the potential to be cute but chooses to be grumpy
  • highly judgmental of her younger brother… or anyone for that matter
  • extremely good at getting her message across

2. Pea Pea (aka Peanut)

  • persian ragdoll, male
  • baby of the family
  • vocal
  • food vacuum
  • very affectionate
  • severe fomo

3. Cat Mom

  • Cat Dad’s willing accomplice
  • a softie and definitely overprotective when it comes to the cats
  • spoils them too much
  • amused by everything the cats do

4. Cat Dad

  • firm believer in the philosophy of bribery with treats
  • tough love dad
  • loves showering the cats with good food
  • generator of crazy ideas

With our high budgets and Hollywood quality equipments, we hope to preserve our memories, as well as share little snippets of our adventures with the world!

Feel free to follow us on our Instagram page @peapeaanddodo with #peanutanddonut to keep up with us!